Saturday, March 26, 2011

Evening with an Emirati Family

Although a bit blurry, the entry hall inlaid marble can be seen. The main door to the house is at the top of the pix To the left of this picture is the woman's sitting area - or what we'd call the Parlor. Turning directly around the picture below is that of the flying staircase and the sitting area at the base of the stairs. Although other office areas in the home, this central area seems popular with the children playing computer games.
Ornate furniture & many pillows/floor cushions are evident through out the house. The staircase was marble with wrought iron railings. Richly patterned and textured wallpaper is used extensively, as are lush area rugs.
The downstairs formal living room is circular. This is where the family gathers in the evening if they are not in the other less formal area. The "informal" living room is directly behind the photographer which has the TV and lots of very comfortable furniture & a huge central serving table.
This is the upstairs sitting area outside the bedrooms. This room is just above the first floor living room . All of the windows have blinds of some type and many layers of heavy and ornate window treatments - sumptious. To respect the cultural preferance to females pictures being published, we will keep well back and not reveal facial details.
Christine wearing a "old school" facial veil, this is also known as a burka. Both the beautiful silk scarf and burka belong to family members, who were quite amused to see a western woman in their garments. She is sitting in the family room with the main entrance behind her. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------


The most sincinct way to describe our evening with an Emerati family would be GRACIOUS HOSPITALITY. From the moment we entered the front hall, until we took our leave 4 hours later, we were pampered and made to feel so very welcome. Christine was inside the house all evening with the women. She received a tour of the entire house, but Scott was only shown a few rooms on the ground floor. These are the rooms pictured above.

Christine's Impressions: I was introduced to 4 generations of Emerati women. The younger women treated their seniors with respect and a sharp word or look was all it took to reprimand an errant child. The older women did not speak any English (well, hey, I do not know more than 10 words in Arabic...). The younger women were quite busy repeating everything into the other language. The 2 young girls from the photo above were delightful. An 11 y/o daughter of the house and a 9 y/o cousin spent a great deal of time sitting near me and explaining conversation, customs and asking me questions and teaching me a few words). Polite and well mannered were the children of this home.


I was offered delicious food and drink the entire visit. Fresh mango juice and fresh avacado juice with raspberry topping was absolutely amazing. Arabic coffee is quite different from American style, but lovely none the less. The meal was huge and the women sat around a gorgeous table in a special company room. I'll let Scott describe the food in his comments, however, it was interesting as all given silverware, but I was only one using it. One of the women told our hostess that she should eat with her fork because I would be offended. Perhaps, I was the one who would have offered offense for not even trying. If we are ever fortunate enough to be invited again, I will certainly use my hands.


Dessert was served in the visitors room right inside the front door. Scott was invited back inside for black forest cake and more delicious chocolates & coffee. We sat with an extended grouping of the hosts' family. Every family member made such an effort to see to my comfort and make me feel welcome. This was an absolutely amazing evening for me AND I got to hold a 3-week old baby!

Scott's experience:

As Christine said - gracious hosts and so welcoming. I was escorted to the men's majlis - or meeting area which is a complete house outside the main house. One room is "Western" with seating, the other is Arabic with cushions on the floor. I and 14 other men conversed all evening - again some in Arabic and when required - in English. We talked politics and found that most are in complete agreement with the situations in Egypt, Bharain, Yemen and Libya. All see the oppressed finally getting their say in the future. How the USA fits in was interesting and at times we took it on the chin but other times were praised for our support. We actually sat outside on a carpet with cushions and a fire going in a patio fireplace. A TV was also outside and was tuned to a news channel to monitor any goings on. It provided a constant source of topics to debate.

Around 10:30 we were called to dinner. I found a small table set for me in a western style. The main course was on a big platter in the middle of the floor. Lamb byariani with tabouli. I passed on the the western accomodation and we all sat on the floor and ate with our right hand tearing the meat from the bone, rolling it into a rice ball and popping it into our mouths. The food was excellent and the lamb melted in your mouth. Following dinner we all returned to the patio and enjoyed tea and coffee served by a house servant who was quite adept at keeping the tea and coffee flowing. Around 11:30 I collected Christne and we said our goodbyes to all. This was our first experience on sharing in an Emirati party and we are anxious to be asked again. They are good people and we certainly felt welcomed. Again in keeping with our hosts privacy I've omitted their idenity. Privacy is a HUGE componet of the Emirati social order and we were honored to be invited in to get a glimpse of this culture.

I did check out the kitchen - it is a seperate building out side the main house and it is not what you'd expect to see. They use applicances specifically made to cook the rice and slow roast the lamb which are easily transported and are gas bottle fired. Although there is a traditional looking kitchen- it is not used as we would. I found this interesting as my love of cooking ( and eating) got a big "Huh" when I realized the use of the appliances to do the majority of the food prep.

To wrap it up, We were honored to recieve this gift of Emirati hospitality.

Love to all,

Scott and Christine



Monday, March 21, 2011

Triathlon Time

Scott has completed his part of the Triathlon. Now he just has to run to meet Stephan at the cycling startline. Scott said the run was the hardest part!

Hendrik crosses the finish line, note the team time of 5 hours 48 minutes and 24 seconds


Team 376 Scott Morrow - Swimmer (American), Hendrik Atsma - Runner (Dutch) and Stephan Saenger - Cyclist (German)


Our Triathletes at Toast the Tri Gathering the following Weekend: Reinier Van Der Wal did the short coarse, same as our relay team, except he did the entire race. Our team of Stephan, Hendrik and Scott. Peter Satchwell did the the long coarse which is basically the entire coarse TWICE. He is a crazy man and plans to do an Ironman competition in South Africa




The Long-Suffering Wives: Katarina Saenger, Katherine Atsma, Christine Morrow, Ginette Satchwell and Marleen Van Der Wal. We are smiling because the race is over!
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The Abu Dhabi Triathon - Where do I start to explain this turn of events for Scott... Well, Scott has been swimming almost daily since last summer and competed in the Abu Dhabi Mile Swim on the Corniche Beach last October (Go back and read that blog to get info on the Van Der Wal family). I believe that competitive spirit was rekindled that day, as Scott was out of the water 3 seconds before Rainier...
Jan 2011 We went to the Yas Triathlon (held on Yas Island home of the F-1 race venue) to cheer on Reinier and Martin Simpson. Scott and Stephan (also employed at Mafraq Hospital) were talking and Stephan tells Scott that he is a cyclist but not much of a swimmer. I commented that it was a shame that athletes such as Scott (who will never run farther than the shore line to the cyclist again) cannot compete as a relay team. We are told "Oh, Yes there are relay teams" and the trap was sprung!
The guys found Hendrik to run. Hendrik has only run for a few years and he told me that he started running as a way to relieve the stress and clear his head. Amazing!
The Abu Dhabi Triathlon is only in it's second year and is already attracting world-class athletes. The purse was $50,000 to top male and top female and 1,200 people participated. Swimming venue was The Emirates Palace, a 7-star hotel at the far end of the Corniche. Scott swam two mornings before the race at the Emirates beach, while I enjoyed watching the news, sports and organizer people prepare. (It is rough sitting on a beach towel watching everyone else work.)
Race Day we were up at 4:30 and picked up Reinier for drive downtown. At the swim venue way too early (but you all know Scott and "The Schedule"). We watched the sun & the excitement level rise as the crowds swelled in anticipation of the race start. 30+ Male Elite were first wave, followed two minutes later by 20+ Female Elite. There were 10 separate waves (i.e. starts) as 1,200 individuals entering the water at the same time would be difficult. Scott was in the 6th wave of about 200 swimmers. He got a mouth full of water, his goggles filled with water and with so many people he felt he was in a washing machine. However, he finally settled down and found his stroke. I was thrilled to be at the finish line and capture his picture. As an aside, Reinier was in the same wave and beat Scott this time - rematch anyone?
Scott handed off the ankle braclet with timing chip to Stephan and off he went. While Stephan cycled from one end of the Corniche to the other, out on to Saydiat Island out onto Yas Island and back again... (Gosh, I'm exhausted just thinking about the 100 km for short course cyclists.)
Scott, Hendrik and I walked a very long way up to the next transition spot. Apparently there were buses, but we missed that valuable piece of information. We met up with Rainier and Hendrik's families and were in plenty of time to shout encouraging words to Stephan as he handed off the racing chip to Hendrik. Waiting and cheered for all athletes we knew, including an American woman (from Indianapolis) who came to Abu Dhabi alone just to do the Tri.
Race Day was extremely warm (even by Abu Dhabi standards) and some competitors were unable to finish. Our dear friend Martin (you will recall him from New Year's Day blog about hosting the USNA Midshipmen) was forced to drop out due to major issues with his bicycle; I see a new cycle in his future...
While Hendrik was running 10km, Scott and I had an ice cream and enjoyed the company of Stephan's family. Decided Hendrik should be showing up fairly soon, so we ventured out of the delightful shade and made our way to the finish line. Scott raises the camera and voila, there was his teammate. Hendrik had run the 10 km in less than an hour and this after the long walk (I'll tell him about the bus, too).
To Toast our Athletes, a gathering was held at Katherine and Hendrik's villa last Saturday afternoon. It was cooler day and we all enjoyed being outside. The many children were running and playing in the neighborhood park, which they found after they had eaten their fill. The food was lovely as everyone brought something and we all just sat and enjoyed the day. Meanwhile, the athletes were discussing training strategy, this race and future races. Peter got quite a ribbing for his exhausting regeime and his ironman competition was discussed at length. Reinier beating Scott is the swim portion of the race was also brought up and a re-match was discussed. The wives were able to get to know each other and commiserate over the trials of being wives of athletes. However, there is a plan afoot for Ginette, Marleen & Katherine to do the triathlon next year. Hendrik may do the full course himself and we found out that Katarina is a runner.
It was a varied group of people: British, German, Dutch, Scottish and 2 lone Americans, which may be my favorite aspect of living overseas: meeting people from other countries. Scott is committed to swim in late April in Dubai with another acquaintance from Mafraq Hospital. Christoph completed the sprint course of the Triathlon, but prefers to run.
AND there is also next years Triathlon to ponder...
Love to you all, Christine (& Scott)